wrong! don't say shit about him. just LISTEN to her. don't make any moves, not yet. it'll just make you look slimy. show her that she can trust you with anything.

you don't want to be the rebound. however, if she ends up spreading her legs for you because you listened, it probably means you're the rebound anyway. so that can get a little sticky, no pun intended.

just let it all simmer down. offer advice ONLY if she asks. that's about all you can do right now. i'm sure all she wants right now is someone to confide in. it should be pretty obvious to you on whether she's interested or not anyway.