I'd bitch to the dealership you got the car from. that's what I did and the dealership finially got the code for me, and if they do it tell them you'll write up a real nice letter to the owner of the dealership telling them how their service is. Every time I go into my dealership the guy that got the code for me helps me out and has even offered me his discount on parts if I need any. if you do have to take the radio out of your dash its not too difficult, do you have a Hayes manual?