me and my girl for 2 years now did one account and we put each other's money into that one account,..i made a gangload more than her but i didnt tell her that,..i wanted her to spend the money she wanted too,...because she isnt the type that ask for much and i like to spoil her h: ,...she hardly spends the money,..and when she does,..shes buying something for either of the hatchbacks :happysad: oh and she likes nice clothes,..but i dont mind her buying anything at all,...she did ask to buy a live monkey once for a pet,..i just gave her one of these :eh: and that thought dropped quickly :chuckles: ,...i dont our method would work for most but money isnt everything to us and like i said,..she isnt the type to spend much,..i spend more but she could careless,...as long as the bills are paid,..thats all that matters