are you ready to move in with her?

one of my best friends moved in with his girlfriend last year (they were both 20) and they still live together now. i just don't see him happy though. it seems that he's missing out a lot of good times and being young. i just think that he chose to move out and settle down too soon.

i'm not taking anything away from your relationship, i have no idea how close you are. moving in together is just a huge step. would you move in with a group of your boys? i know that's typical here, college town and all, and it's always good times. everyone has jobs, but rent is cheap between everyone in the house and it's always a party.

i moved out of my parents house and live with a bunch of my friends. while i go to school and work, the memories with these guys are amazing, and i wouldn't trade that for anything, since in 30 years i'll still remember these days. for me, there's lots of time to settle down later on.

i guess it all depends on where you stand in life. just because you need to get out of your mom's house doesn't mean you and alexis need to settle down and buy a home.

whatever you choose, i wish you the best of luck. follow your gut, only you know what's best for you.