a friend of mine told me the other day that his dog just died and his parents are getting a divorce...he came to me because both have happened to me.

Theres nothing that you can really say...you just gotta be there and let them talk. Sometimes just talking can make someone feel better.

 

"comfort" her :naughty:

 

She wants to learn driving now. Now where should I start from.... how to avoid cops, how to double clutch, how to take care of tail gaters...... j/k

She wants to learn auto. The only auto I have is 92 Integra. I wish I could take my standard vigor

 

words of hope and optimism work best, cuz things do get better with time.

 

tell her that in order for her to learn from you, she's gotta start on the standard, instead of the auto. Tell her it'll be good for her to know.

Then, if she says yes, start in a big business parking lot on the weekend and get a hang of 1st gear...then go on back country roads that aren't populated....make sure she's got a license though.

 

How would she have a license if she doesn't know how to drive?

 

permit? :dunno:

 

she felt comfortable with u...thats why she poured her heart out to u...
either that or she just needed to get it out...
but either way...its important that u were there and u listened...
thats what she wanted...
u really dont have to b sweet to her...
just a few words that ure trying to understand how she feels and tell her to look toward a better future...
maybe thats all shell need

 

:idb:

 

I wish I could use the line "its not gonna suck itself" but I have too much respect for myself and her ....

Tirod, ur avatar might get me in trouble. i am at work ;-)