Eh, i wasnt getting answers from anyone else, so i figured, why not try h-a.net . Ok.....im 15.....and i went up north with my friend, and their cabin is like, 10 min away from my other friends cabin, who happened to be up there, and their parents happen to be good friends. So one night we go over there to my other friends cabin, and the same the next night, and i got to talking with my friends sister (not the friend i went up with). We really "hit it off" and stuff, then i slept over at her house back here, because her bro invited me (i ended up sleeping there 3 nights i think ) so as intended, i was with his sister the whole 4 days....and then we kept doing stuff, and a week later start going out. (nows a good time to say that im a sophmore, shes a senior, shes about to be 18, im 15....ull see why). So a few days after we are going out, me and her stop by at the house of the friend i went up north with to get somethin i left there, and my friend called me upstairs alone...so i went, and he had my g/f's bro and one of my other friends on a 3 way call....and he gave me the phone.....and they basically told me that they figured she was going to dump me in 2 weeks (also 2 weeks before school starts), get tired of me, or be around me 24/7 (which we alllready were). So i said the classic "Fuk you guys im leavin:madfawk: "........so this past monday, it was our 2 week mark....and she dumps me....(also 2 weeks before school starts). Ha...who woulda figured:thinking:?! By now, i had opened myself to her in alot more than 1 way just to have her break it off like it meant nothing. She gave me amillion and one reasons of why she did, but whenever i would rule one out, she would bring up another.....but the main reason she said is because she didnt want to be tied down her senior year-she said wanted to live it the "fullest" without constantly thinking about me and what were going to do and getting back so we can do stuff, and i got the "you have to beleive me, i honestly dont want to be with anyone else but you" routine........now someone told me that it looks like she is "sugarcoating" the real prob.....but im still confused over all of this shit (yes im 15 and dont understand all this, you dont need to remind me of that). So ive gone from seeing her everyday for the past month, to never seeing her and her not wanting to talk even online because "its too soon and it makes it harder the first few days".....well anyways, its back to the "friends" stage.........but i just wanted to vent aallllll that shit out.......does it look to anyone like she is trying to hide the main prob?? Id really appreciate your views. Thanks


By the way......ive learned that watching a good 'ol streetrace can really take a guys mind off a girl ....

Well im out...............

 

did you honestly believe it would be a meaningful relationship? You're 15 for christ's sake.

 

I wouldn't worry about it. 15-years old is nothing...you have plenty of time for more "meaningful" relationships. :chuckles:

 

:slap: you're 15!! you'll find some hot virgins in a week, you'll forget bout her....:thumbup:

 

dun sweat it bro.. girls'll come and go... no go work on a new hotty :naughty:

 

ok cliff notes?

 

I kno im 15..........i just want to kno if that reason is ligit or BS

 

Did you bang her? Thats all that matters.

 

:werd: :naughty:

 

dude, just let time solve these emotional problems. cause when you're in your senior year. you'll probably laugh at this and brag to your buddies about this 15-18 dealy, etc and when you're like 30 you'll laugh even harder and when you're even older. this won't even matter anymore. so why should it bug you tomorrow. just relax and take it easy