For the guys:
Does it bother you how many girls you've been with? Either too many or too few?

Girls:
What do you think of guys that have had a lot/very few partners?


here's why.
I was with this girl for about a year & a half, & due to religous beliefs we never had "sex". but we did pretty much everything but.

We ended up breaking up, & i was just like ****it, & i got laid like a month later with some chic i had met like a week previous. for the 4 months or so, we had a ****-buddy relationship going on, & it was great. then she moved away, & i dont really have the desire to stabb away like some of my friends.

so i've only slept with 1 girl, but gotten heady munsters from like 6-8 chics too. & it doesnt really bother me that i've only been with 1 chic. but a bunch my buds are always braggin about how many chics they've bagged. to them its wierd, that i've only been with 1 chic, but i dont go striving after pussy like they do.

so im just curious as to everyone's opinions.

 

I prefer my man to have as many few partners as possible. If he has too much, it's just kinda slutty and show what a pervert he is.

I think around 2-5 is okay with me..more than that...eh *shrugs*

but then again, it also depends on age....

 

honestly, i'm ashamed of myself bc i broke up with the girl who i lost my virginity to[and likewise she did to me]. havent had any girls since.

 

btw...in case anyone is wondering, i just turned 20 like 2 weeks ago, & i lost my virginity back in like august of last year.

 

why no question about guys caring how many ppl their girl has been with... i mean its not like girls dont like sex just as much and instead were waiting for prince charming to come pop our cherries.... im sure most DECENT guys dont want a girlsto be in the double digits.but maybe have experiance
edit; i know its cuz tis is ur personal situation but guys and girls will be looking at this

 

The guy I lost it to was also a virgin and I found out he only used me for sex; never really talked to me much after the deed. Kind of makes me feel like ****. Eh anywho to answer the question, I don't want to be with a male who's had tons of partners; but I would like someone with sexual know-how.

 

In all honesty I don't have that long of a list, I can remember each of the women I have been with and also know that each of them I had a relationship with when we did sleep together.

No point in playing the conqueror I have more respect for myself and women than that.

 

it doesn't bother me because its in his past. if he talks about them or compares me to them then it becomes an issue. and STD tests are a definite requirement.

btw oral sex is sex...

 

:bowdown: so true