Question about how many previous partners, not like usual.
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Originally posted by Nightshade
In all honesty I don't have that long of a list, I can remember each of the women I have been with and also know that each of them I had a relationship with when we did sleep together.
No point in playing the conqueror I have more respect for myself and women than that.
In all honesty I don't have that long of a list, I can remember each of the women I have been with and also know that each of them I had a relationship with when we did sleep together.
No point in playing the conqueror I have more respect for myself and women than that.
yea dood, im totally with ya on this. i was in a good friend relationship with the one girl i was with...& i kinda want the next one to be in a meaningful relationship...
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Ok, here's my opinion on the whole blow job counting as sex thing.
If you are talking scientifically, literally, etc then no it does not count.
However, if you are talking religiously I would say it does. (Keep in mind I know absolutely NOTHING about religion)
Ahhh this all remind me of this friend I have. He claims that he is just SOOOOOO religious, and his g/f (who I know pretty well) is CRAZY religious. Anyways, my friends smokes, drinks, swears, looks at porn, has sex before marriage with EVERY girlfriend he's had (including the current one). And then he pretends he's a priest, lol.
But it all came back and bit him in the ass, his g/f went to bible camp or some shit and now she won't put out AT ALL. HAHAHA me and my friends all laugh at how religion screwed him over. But we don't like his g/f anymore, I mean not puttin out from the beginning is one thing, but you can't put out and then just drop the axe like that, NOT cool. :nono:
If you are talking scientifically, literally, etc then no it does not count.
However, if you are talking religiously I would say it does. (Keep in mind I know absolutely NOTHING about religion)
Ahhh this all remind me of this friend I have. He claims that he is just SOOOOOO religious, and his g/f (who I know pretty well) is CRAZY religious. Anyways, my friends smokes, drinks, swears, looks at porn, has sex before marriage with EVERY girlfriend he's had (including the current one). And then he pretends he's a priest, lol.
But it all came back and bit him in the ass, his g/f went to bible camp or some shit and now she won't put out AT ALL. HAHAHA me and my friends all laugh at how religion screwed him over. But we don't like his g/f anymore, I mean not puttin out from the beginning is one thing, but you can't put out and then just drop the axe like that, NOT cool. :nono:
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I'm ok with that. Instead of her experimenting with other guys in the past, I'm experimenting with her in the present :naughty:
I'm halfway certain it won't last, though. But at least by now she knows what she likes, for the most part, and I know what I likes. So should we break up before the end of our "sexual peak" at least we'll have some experience under our belts.
mostly I think it won't last because of her not being able to deal with how I am. Like we'll be kickin back after I've made the effort to stay awake for 24+ hours because I wanted to spend time with her, and because my sleeping schedule is fuct up, then I'll nod off for a couple hours and she'll be pissed off for two days... And I take her to do stuff that she doesn't necessarily want to do, but will do anyway. I only do that because she doesn't want to do anything... anything... ever. Then when I go and do stuff alone, or with some friends she gets pissed off at me for it.
Like I said. Probably ain't gonna last... but I'm sorta ok with that.
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I'm ok with that. Instead of her experimenting with other guys in the past, I'm experimenting with her in the present :naughty:
I'm halfway certain it won't last, though. But at least by now she knows what she likes, for the most part, and I know what I likes. So should we break up before the end of our "sexual peak" at least we'll have some experience under our belts.
mostly I think it won't last because of her not being able to deal with how I am. Like we'll be kickin back after I've made the effort to stay awake for 24+ hours because I wanted to spend time with her, and because my sleeping schedule is fuct up, then I'll nod off for a couple hours and she'll be pissed off for two days... And I take her to do stuff that she doesn't necessarily want to do, but will do anyway. I only do that because she doesn't want to do anything... anything... ever. Then when I go and do stuff alone, or with some friends she gets pissed off at me for it.
Like I said. Probably ain't gonna last... but I'm sorta ok with that.
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No I don't feel guilty, and no I don't care how many partners my wife had before me, either. She is also well aware of my past.
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From: Mexico, by Jaymar
Originally posted by OLDMAN
No I don't feel guilty, and no I don't care how many partners my wife had before me, either. She is also well aware of my past.
No I don't feel guilty, and no I don't care how many partners my wife had before me, either. She is also well aware of my past.
White[Pony], from past experiences, I would end things before they get worse if you feel that it is what has to happen. I was in a long term relationship that should have ended 6 months before it did and well.. we ended things with both of us being mad at the other and we basically didn't talk for 1.5yrs, just about 2 months ago, we finally started talking again. I really regret those 1.5yrs, because she was a good friend too, we were very close.
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Originally posted by Dweezel
I hate girls who say that they are good just because they do not give up the cherry. If you are a blow job whore, you are still a whore.
I hate girls who say that they are good just because they do not give up the cherry. If you are a blow job whore, you are still a whore.
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Yes, to me, sex is a very emotional, precious thing. Pretend its a peice of paper, everyperson you have sex with , they get half, then the next half of that half........
pretty soon, WTF, you're not really giving that much of yourself to someone, like your future wife, if you started out with a 8 1/2 x 11 piece of paper, now they only get 1/2"x1/4" peice....
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or, how special is a gift, if its been given 20 other times, and is all used up.
sex loses its specialness, and just becomes physical, not emotion.
my viewpoints.
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I like sex, I think it's fun. It's significant but it's not that huge of a deal to me. If I was dating one particular girl I would obviously want her to be faithful, but if she had slept with a bunch of guys before then I wouldn't hold it against her unless it was some outrageous number. I've been with a "few" girls in my time, if she wanted to get her jollies at some point in the past I'm not going to hold it against her.
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Uhhh....tell me thats not your girl in your avatar and that shes not cheating on you with uhhh...whatever that is. Haha, j/k MrFatBooty.
In Response to your questionb18cya,
In all honesty it does bother me that my girlfriend has had previouse sexual encounters. Thats just because shes 17 and did it with one of my closest friends tho. If i didn't know the guy personally it wouldn't be such an issue. It's worth it to me to look past it and i shouldnt really hold it against her but it does bother me. Age is definitely an issue and like everyone is saying as you get older it is more acceptable to have been with more people. I prefer that my partner is just experianced enough to know what they are doing. At the same time though...It's nice to experiment with each other on certain things for the first time.
Just my 02.
Ben
In Response to your questionb18cya,
In all honesty it does bother me that my girlfriend has had previouse sexual encounters. Thats just because shes 17 and did it with one of my closest friends tho. If i didn't know the guy personally it wouldn't be such an issue. It's worth it to me to look past it and i shouldnt really hold it against her but it does bother me. Age is definitely an issue and like everyone is saying as you get older it is more acceptable to have been with more people. I prefer that my partner is just experianced enough to know what they are doing. At the same time though...It's nice to experiment with each other on certain things for the first time.
Just my 02.
Ben
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well, I've had quite a few partners, so I can't really look down on someone just because they've slept with people... I just like it to be less than me... which should be easy....