Ok, there was this girl that i basically fell in love with back in the day (please read love or lost love thread). So later on today, i have to go back to her house because i have to give something to her brother. However, knowing that she will be at home, i was trying to find a way that i could tell her that i had feelings for her, just to get it off my chest. Yes this may sound a bit corney, however, this is something that i felt that needed to be down. im not trying to hurt her in a mean azz way, but i just want to get it out of my system so that i feel that i could move on. The main problem is that, i really dont know how to spark up the conversation with her, I havent talked to her in a month, and, she is engaged to some Dumb-fu*k 10-15,000 miles away, (arranged engagement, long story), and from what i understood, i she liked be back for a while. so I wanted to go there and tell her, or i was kind of thinking that maybe i should just write her a letter, i dont know. Please, if anybody has been in this situation, please tell me what you have done or would have done and what the consiquences were after it happened. I know im not makeing much sence right now, but please, HELP. thank You.

 

pull her aside and let it all out

 

:werd:

 

Ok So, i didnt go to her house that day because the fact that nobody was home, So im going back on tuesday, any advice on what more to do?

 

Yes I agree on pulling her a side to let it out. Once you start to talk, the rest will be easy.

 

if u dont tell her, I will...

 

Be yourself.

If you don't let it all out, it will just be balled up forever turning into regrets and possibly depression.

But definately do it. (and please use spaces and returns for easier reading)