That 's the other problem. Rumor has it that my brother's wife/ex wife whatever she is, is scheduled to get married the day after me to the new guy she's with.

I feel like lifting weights to take some aggression out.

 

Get away dude, too much mess and you're still in the early stages.

 

Damn. Yeah... Get it out of your system, for sure. :hs:
Just remember that it's your lady's day, and no one else's. I'd hate for you to be all tense that day, and have her feel that she doesn't have your complete attention.

 

If it wasn't for her and her family I would've eloped and called it a day. But her mom put down the deposit on the reception. I coughed up the money for the photographer and other odds and ends for the wedding already.

 

Get that money back to her mom somehow and cancel that shit son.

 

don't elope

just don't invite people that can cause problems.... its sad that they are your family, but you gotta make this start on a good note.

 

Have a wedding with just her side?

I'm sorry man, that sucks.

 

that sucks dude. i hope it all works out.

 

You know honestly marshy i've already been contemplating that. My family is filled with problems hence why i'm not inviting any cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents or my own parents. Only 2 people from my family that were going to be there was my brother (Not even sure if that's going to happen) and my sister.

 

That's too much negative energy to start your first day as a married man. A bunch of people on your side aren't going, so what's a few more?