mr22na

Who here has dated some one for a while (like years) then broke up b.c of the being "married" feeling. Then after say 1.5 weeks of being separated a different EX (the previous one) randomly calls/texts/AIMS you (knowing your free) and then talks to you after 3.5 years of silence between the two of you.

well my question is should i pursue it just for old times sake and try to make it a one or two nighter, or just stay far away...

(no pics of recent EX)
(ill think about pics of the one were talking about)

:shrug:


*and since being 1.5 weeks single about 4 other girls are gaining a lot of interest...but i dont want the long term relationship for a LONG TIME so i need advice on how to tap all of them with no attachments...(ive only ever had long term relationships and i dont want to be held down again)


and i guess if i get good responses ill post up some pics.

RicoD

go sex all the people you can

Tark

funny cause i'm in that situation exept the ex is not a ex-GF she a ex-FF. And she not single she has a BF.

mr22na

werd. thats the plan.

see the thing is i have about 3 girls that want it (not trying to be that guy and brag either its just true) but i think one of them deff. wants a relationship, the other might want a relationship and the EX i was talking about probably doesnt (well i know she wouldnt)

:run:

DarkStarr

stay away from relationships until you are well rooted in your career

they all want you for your money o:

Tark

oh and post pics

mr22na

dude DO IT...lol i mean its got to be a challenge and a turn on knowing that she has a BF...

but on a serious note if someone did that to me

but i bet it would give you and incentive to go longer and harder hahah.

RicoD

if you dont want to be an asshole let them know that you don't think this will go further than sex h:

but if you wanna sex don't tell them

mr22na

exactly.

if you want the quick story...

i was in loive with my best friend in hih school and it wasnt the puppy love either like the legit kind...

well three years later she loved me and i kinda feel out the circle...i just didnt have feelings for her besides friends again so i was like screw this and told her that i need a break and i think we should be best friends b.c i didnt like the way we were treating each other.

but it was a good 3 years untill the last couple months.

Tark

she was a great screw! IDB, A2M everything... i would have to take a shower after because i felt too dirty