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Old Jul 31, 2008 | 09:04 AM
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Originally Posted by Draconius
You work with her? If so then yeah...but we work at the same place. So work together, eat together, sleep together, wake up together, rinse and repeat.
As long as you have just a little bit of "alone" time. I think a little solo time is still necessary in any relationship.
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Old Jul 31, 2008 | 09:05 AM
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Originally Posted by losiglow
Good point, though I don't know if marriages where the people lived together are any more successful than ones where they don't. My wife and I only even dated for 3 months and we never lived together (though there were a few of those nights where I went home a little late). We've been happily married for 6 years now. I've heard stories both ways.
i've heard there's higher success rate for those who dont live together first. i've never seen any facts to back it up tho...but never looked for them either


but i lived with SO before we got married
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Old Jul 31, 2008 | 09:05 AM
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Originally Posted by Draconius
esplain?
but we work at the same place. So work together, eat together, sleep together, wake up together, rinse and repeat.


if you dont see the fial here then i is sorry my friend. it will be a matter of time before you guys cant stand each other. one thing that is needed in a relationship is space which looks like you guys are lacking.
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Old Jul 31, 2008 | 09:06 AM
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my way is right your way is wrong why? because i say so
eat my cock.

my friend was happily dating this chick before she moved in. After she moved in, he broke up with her and kicked her ass out.
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Old Jul 31, 2008 | 09:07 AM
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Originally Posted by dj02
but we work at the same place. So work together, eat together, sleep together, wake up together, rinse and repeat.


if you dont see the fial here then i is sorry my friend. it will be a matter of time before you guys cant stand each other. one thing that is needed in a relationship is space which looks like you guys are lacking.
i kinda agree. i hope it doesnt happen to you, but that seems like too much and you'll start to get stick of seeing each other h:
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Old Jul 31, 2008 | 09:07 AM
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and we got advice from vinnie the guy who likes to fuck random girls :chuckles: h:
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Old Jul 31, 2008 | 09:08 AM
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Originally Posted by dj02
but we work at the same place. So work together, eat together, sleep together, wake up together, rinse and repeat.


if you dont see the fial here then i is sorry my friend. it will be a matter of time before you guys cant stand each other. one thing that is needed in a relationship is space which looks like you guys are lacking.
Pretty much
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Old Jul 31, 2008 | 09:10 AM
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Originally Posted by NOPD
eat my cock.

my friend was happily dating this chick before she moved in. After she moved in, he broke up with her and kicked her ass out.
there's good and bad to that. ..i mean there's always diff reasons for breaking up...


but say you've been dating for a long time or whatever and you decide to live together before getting married, and then if you have a big argument or something, it's easy to say you're done and move out....but if you're married, you kinda want to try and work it out before getting to that point.
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Old Jul 31, 2008 | 09:10 AM
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Alone time has to be more thought out and planned, but it's chilled

I have neighbors that live together, but have separate bedrooms. White guy and an Asian woman. They're in their mid 20's and have been together for 10 years. He seemed a little embarrassed when he told me, but I was like, good idea h:

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Old Jul 31, 2008 | 09:10 AM
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Originally Posted by dj02
but we work at the same place. So work together, eat together, sleep together, wake up together, rinse and repeat.


if you dont see the fial here then i is sorry my friend. it will be a matter of time before you guys cant stand each other. one thing that is needed in a relationship is space which looks like you guys are lacking.
I figured that's what you meant. I am leaning all too much that solo time is one of the more important things...

I see solo time as a day alone with minimal contact, and I am guessing she would see solo time as the time we are each at each others desks...
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