DarkStarr

So, when you asked your chick to be your girlfriend (or plan on asking).. how do you go about doing it? Do you just say something along the lines of "Would you be my girlfriend", or do you do something more along the lines of "I would like to take our relationship to the next level"..

I'm curious :crazyr:

RB

All my experiences it's kind of been implied, or just came up in a discussion of where the relationship was going.

dubcac

Ask her if she wants to go steady, or wear your letterman's jacket.

Chefboiali

I'm not sure I'd say anything. Girls sometimes get weird when you turn the spotlight on defining terms like that. Just keep it cool and keep doing what you're doing.

Grifter

implied ftw

DarkStarr

Yeah, thats what it kind of seems like right now. We have been dating for a bit now, but haven't really given each other the "title" I guess.

I no have a letterman's jacket :hs:

Yeah, I understand what you are saying. I'm not sure how to bring it up, and don't want it to be weird or anything.

Sounds about right

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I am also not sure even if I want to be "in a relationship". I kind of like where I am right now, and I don't want it to seem like I am leading her on.

It's been 9 months since my last relationship, is it too soon? That is what I am asking myself.

Fire

Just let her know you are commited to her and have the whole monogamy discussion with her. Dont feel weird man.

edit: though at 19 I wonder why in crazy hell you would want to be monogamous though.

Brad

some people are really crazy about knowing the certain dates of things for the single purpose of anniversaries and such. girls always remember the exact dates of a lot of firsts (first date, first kiss, first roadhead, the date you became 'official/exclusive', etc.) so they like to be told, 'okay, today is our first day of being 'official'. mark your calendars.'

back in middle school you had to 'pop the question' as if you were proposing a marraige, but as you get older and more experienced, you kinda just figure it out naturally.

SUPER KiMBO

I'm the kinda girl that likes to be sure...so the implied stuff makes me uneasy

white_n_slow

fuck her... that tends to get the point across. Most of them think its the same thing anyway h: