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Old May 4, 2007 | 10:31 PM
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Hey guys i want to know somthing.. Their is a girl at my work who i think likes me, just i want to double check to make sure..

Signs: She threw coffee stir sticks in my car when i was with my dad. Next day she asked who it was and i told her and she was embarresed.

Next she always says she wants to work with me more (Opposite shifts).

We always get along great and always like to talk to eachother, and we have fun.

I am going to see when i work with her Next, and try to get some more signs. (Been looking online for signs LOL)

Yes this is my first crush, never been on a date or had a girlfriend. almost 21 LOL

Thanks for any insight guys...
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Old May 4, 2007 | 10:38 PM
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If you talk to her all the times, ask her out on a non-work related event and go from there.
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Old May 4, 2007 | 10:53 PM
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If you talk to her all the times, ask her out on a non-work related event and go from there.

I just don't want to get the wrong idea and ask her out and she is like "wtf?" even if i am like 60% sure i will try.

I will look for more factors just to be a little sure right now i am about 30-40% sure

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Old May 4, 2007 | 10:54 PM
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if this is your first time, take your time, dont rush into things.
just take it easy. Start with spending more time w/ her at work. then slowly spend more time with her outside of work. Just take things from there~
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Old May 4, 2007 | 11:01 PM
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Originally Posted by BKKloppenborg
I just don't want to get the wrong idea and ask her out and she is like "wtf?"
just be casual about it,

"hey, there's this new Thai place down the street, heard the *insert thai food here* is pretty decent. Wanna come and check it out some time this week?"

sure, she'll think you're asking her out, but girls tend to like some forwardness in a guy. Worst she can say is she's busy and calls a raincheck on you. No biggie.
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Old May 4, 2007 | 11:12 PM
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Originally Posted by sqkev
just be casual about it,

"hey, there's this new Thai place down the street, heard the *insert thai food here* is pretty decent. Wanna come and check it out some time this week?"

sure, she'll think you're asking her out, but girls tend to like some forwardness in a guy. Worst she can say is she's busy and calls a raincheck on you. No biggie.
Great, no i just need to think of a place to go lol. Damn i am nervous first time out any suggestings on what to do and say to her?

Only thing that worries me is the other day she saw a handbag and she loved it and i guessed on price of 500 dollars nope its 900 OMG..
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Old May 4, 2007 | 11:22 PM
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Originally Posted by BKKloppenborg
Great, no i just need to think of a place to go lol. Damn i am nervous first time out any suggestings on what to do and say to her?

Only thing that worries me is the other day she saw a handbag and she loved it and i guessed on price of 500 dollars nope its 900 OMG..
I like expensive toys too, but that doesn't mean I spend all my money on toys or have my gf pays for them. Personally, I think it's fine to have some taste as long as you don't go overboard or being too unrealistic.

One suggestion, smile often, even when you're nervous. Just be genuine with your words and the rest will flow. Try not to think too much.
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Old May 4, 2007 | 11:23 PM
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Originally Posted by BKKloppenborg
Great, no i just need to think of a place to go lol. Damn i am nervous first time out any suggestings on what to do and say to her?

Only thing that worries me is the other day she saw a handbag and she loved it and i guessed on price of 500 dollars nope its 900 OMG..
just means she likes the finer things, hey but what girl dosent. lunch is always a good ice breaker. if you both work together and have the same shift ask her to lunch. girls love confidence in a guy, so make sure you dont act nervous if she really dose like you it wont be hard to tell after lunch.
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Old May 4, 2007 | 11:24 PM
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Tell her you got a TenRai exhaust, and that will do all the work for you.
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Old May 4, 2007 | 11:26 PM
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Originally Posted by dubcac
Tell her you got a TenRai exhaust, and that will do all the work for you.

lol she drives a Outlander... Not sure if she likes my car though..
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