Follow some of these and you'll be alllll riiiight:

-Start saying "no" more often
-Don't do them favors
-Don't say sorry
-Make them anticipate

 

gargh!

 

So let's say a friend of mine was browsing through myspace and happen to find a chick friend from grade school who he's had the hots for but kind of lost touch through out the years because they had different friends but had a lot of things in common.

Would you message the friend?

Strictly asking for a friend... because he thinks messaging people through myspace is weird :rick:

 

I got in touch with a few elementary school friends from Myspace, it was pretty refreshing.

Your friend worries too much. It's pretty funny how people change after the years. There's nothing to lose in this, other than not messaging her.

 

Yea I already messaged her h:

So I take it you basically ignoring video chick is working out great for you :chuckles:

 

Yes, I already know there's nothing serious to happen between us. Thus, I'm seeing how far I can go by putting the least amount of effort. On top of that there's hardly any chemistry. So far I have:

-Said no when she wanted to get drinks one time, I was tired
-She gave me her number, I didn't ask for it
-Ignored her all this morning, she then asks me out to lunch

 

I'm taking notes. h:

so hard to say no though...."Can I have one of your kidneys?" me: "Just one?!"

 

Just think of all the other guys that already did say "no" to the one you're pursuing. Yes I know you want to make her happy, but pleasing her when it's that obvious is a definite no-no. She's already won.

 

Speaking of the always pleasing her.. I think I read it on here and whoever said it, thanks alot, cause it has stuck in my mind:

"A problem is that most men pre-marry their girlfriends by giving them endless gifts and showering them with anything they want, and then after all that dies down, the problems start."

Or something like that, its not a direct quote. Seems that not always giving into their every desire and having them anticipate you is a good thing.

 

I see you read the latest Maxim