do you have it, or do you feel like you dont have much? and why?


i think i have a healthy level of self-esteem. i dont always need affirmation from others to be comfortable w/ myself, although its good to hear some positive feedback from people every now and then

i only ask b/c i feel like a lot of people i run into have low levels of self-esteem and either cant stand up for themselves or wont take the proper level of credit they deserve, aka false humility. just kinda sucks cuz i can see that these people would be so much better off if they were more comfy in their own skin


on the flip side, i hate cocky fegs

 

I have a perfect amount. Not too cocky and not too shy.

 

I have a healthy amount....

Canada pretends he is a cocky feg but on the inside he's just a feg :chuckles:

 

:werd: thats how i feel.

 

:thumbup: people who have good self-esteem are more cool than not h:

lol

 

I have a healthy amount

 

Well I have very high self esteem in my personality but my looks its very low. So I use comedy to over come that.

 

Now that I think of it, I may have too much to certain people, I talk a lot of shit, but if you knew me well enough, you would know I'm bullshitting 99% of the time but it makes me sound cocky

 

+1

ok, maybe not very low, but its definitely not like 'hey look at me'. and interestingly enough, i dont find myself trying to compensate. more like, eh whatever. make do w/ what i got

 

i don't know, im realizing that in the past it was really bad. and now i feel like i do have better self-esteem, but its still not good. ie - around women, im horrible. however in working envirnments, i know what im doing and im pretty strong at that. - i can be a dick.