although shes not psycho or anything else crazy by any stretch of the imagination, the whole compatibility issue has been on my mind for a long time. im not sure how many other people are like this, but to an extent im a people-pleaser and in the simplest form, i hate to see people down and would do a lot to make them feel better. after a yr and a half of the relationship, i started realizing that there were a lot of instances where it just didnt click or feel as natural as i had hoped. but i never did anything b/c i always told myself 'hey it'll eventually piece itself together'.

as ive been looking back its like ive been doing the self-fulfilling prophecy number, telling myself it'll just get better w/ more energy and time, but it wouldnt. and b/c i never wanted to dissapoint her since she was so into the relationship, i didnt do much. except i DID bring it up in a serious fashion a few times. and at those times she would always say 'hey its ok, youre doing enough for me'. so yeah, i had to decide whether i was gonna wait for an indefinite amount of time for things to finally click (or not) or let her go looking out for the best interests of us both...

 

wrong move dude, the girl obviously was great to you.

 

you do what u gotta do.

 

real wrong move... girl was good to you! and if she says hey you're doign enought for me then take it as it is! Seams to me that you might be a woman cause you're thinking like a woman! Dude if you really care for this girl and you really love this girl then just be with her... Let HER decide if what you offer is enough or not... her decision not yours.

 

I hate you :squint:

 

huh

 

...thanks?

 

did he brak up with you?!?!

 

the female version did.. :happysad:

 

Relient K - My girl's ex-boyfriend...Your the guy they're singing about

My Girl's Ex-boyfriend
Relient K

When he was seeing her
You could see he had his doubts
And now he's missing her
Because he knows he's missing out
Now it's haunting him
The memories like a ghost
And he's so terrified
Cause no one else even comes close

He's a guy that you should feel sorry for
He had the world but he thought that he wanted more
I owe it all to the mistake he made back then
I owe it all to my girl's ex-boyfriend

So then, along comes me,
This undeserving mess (undeserving mess)
Who would believe my life
Would be so blessed (life would be so blessed)
Two years ago
He left all that to breathe (left all that to breathe)
Who would of known
It would be everything I need

He's a guy that you should feel sorry for
He had the world but he thought that he wanted more
I owe it all to the mistake he made back then
I owe it all to my girl's ex-boyfriend

If it wasn't for him
I would still be searching
If it wasn't for him
I wouldn't know my best friend
If it wasn't for him
He would be able to see
If it wasn't for him
He would be as happy as me

She and I settled down you can bet
That he is going to have to settle for less
He's someone that I would hate to be
I got the girl and he's left with just the memory.

He's a guy that you should feel sorry for
He had the world but he thought that he wanted more
I owe it all to the mistake that he made back then
I owe it all to my girl's ex-boyfriend

If it wasn't for him
I would still be searching
If it wasn't for him
I wouldn't know my best friend
If it wasn't for him
He would be able to see
If it wasn't for him
He would be as happy as me