Approaching girl younger then you....
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Originally Posted by centerforce99
Confidence is key, but not too much cause then you'll appear arrogant and that can be a turn off. Let her know she's worth your time, but don't appear to have just one plate spinning, even if you do, she can't know that cause then it will go to her head or she'll think your desparate. Start w/hey there's and idle chit chat and begin walking her to some of her classes, eventually you'll get to know her a little better and you'll be able to ask her out and most likely she will say yes, if she is the least bit interested. Do you wrestle or play baseball (curently wrestling season, and baseball is coming up) if so, ask her to a match or a game...to watch you compete. Maybe a car show or some races...good luck man, been there done that and above is how I did.
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Originally Posted by centerforce99
Confidence is key, but not too much cause then you'll appear arrogant and that can be a turn off. Let her know she's worth your time, but don't appear to have just one plate spinning, even if you do, she can't know that cause then it will go to her head or she'll think your desparate. Start w/hey there's and idle chit chat and begin walking her to some of her classes, eventually you'll get to know her a little better and you'll be able to ask her out and most likely she will say yes, if she is the least bit interested. Do you wrestle or play baseball (curently wrestling season, and baseball is coming up) if so, ask her to a match or a game...to watch you compete. Maybe a car show or some races...good luck man, been there done that and above is how I did.
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From: Diego
yo just be you....... just go up to her and say whats up!!!!!! i had a class with you last year, ask her how everthing this year as shes telling you this "think fast on you feet" see what you have in common... once you find out ask for her phone # if she says she has a boyfriend just tell her you want her friendship..... then give her your # make sure you go out your way to say hi to her that's one way for the shy guy approach!!!
