I bet :loco:

 

Andrew you hit the nail on the head.


Jae I can understand that you two may have sharded something special when you two were together but the fact of the matter is she obviously didn't think too highly of it because of the way she treated you, breaking up the way she did and then getting bf so quickly. I think she used that whole movie situation as an excuse to make her break and go for this other guy. Now that things aren't going so great with him she starts calling you. You should not be a back-up plan Jae.

 

I know...and thats the part that has me all :loco: Its like i know she hurt me when we broke up and that i can possibly do better without her...but at the same time the other side of me is saying....she is what you were looking for some things dont come easy. If its something you really want. You will do your best to get it. And andrew we both know that when theres something i want i dont stop till i get it. So its sorta battle between heart and mind.

 

The thing is, this is the easy way out. To pick up an ex off the scrap heap isn't the most difficult thing to do.

The difficult thing is to pack it up and move on. You need to seperate your heart from these fond memories, and use your brain to focus on what actually happened.

From what I saw, you treated her good, but she was looking for any way out of the relationship. She didn't know how to end it because you did nothing wrong ... the second any little thing came up, she took her ball and ran.

You want the relationship, not this girl. She just happens to be there.

This is not the right formula for a healthy relationship.


You'll get your "new reationship" buzz ... but it will fade away. You'll be in the exact same place you're at now.

You need to move forward, and not live in the broken past.

 

be strong and don't take her back. she had her chance and blew it. you need to let her know that she had it good with you and that she can never have that back. you'll regret it, if you get back with her.

 

I don't know this girl, but from a girl's point of view, I've seen what she's done before.

Some guy comes around, acting like he's the one, saying everything right and you fall for it hook, line, and sinker. She def wouldn't have even listened if she was completely happy with you. The ill will could be her trying to put up a strong front because she is broken-hearted about what happened between you two. And sometimes, in the end she figures out that this new guy just used her and she realizes what she left behind. I've seen this happen to friends. Girls are emotional and you should def really figure out what she wants. She should figure out what she wants too.
I'm in no way says that Jae should take her back, I'm just reading through all this from a girl's propective and seeing that it could be looked at another way.

just my two cents. don't all jump on me at once :happysad:

 

sounds like an invitation. h: :chuckles:

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drop her jae.
just spend money on yourself... at least you'll have something to show for it later h:

 

Thats what i feel is happening. She did little things to keep in touch with me. Then when she came on Sunday to get her stuff. When she came in all i did was give her her stuff and i asked for my stuff and she told me she didnt have it she forgot it but next time she in the area she'll hit me up. I then opened up the door and she left. When she got home her away message said "I just dunno, Im going to lay down and really start thinking about this. I really think he got me fucked up" Then later on that nite her away message changed and to sum it up basically the new guy is playing games with her and she doesnt have time for the games.
I can tell shes beginning to regret it cus when she left my house she sped off all fast and i know she only speeds when shes upset.