got dumped any advice?
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got dumped any advice?
girl friend broke up with me... really sucks! I only tomorrow to try to kinda win her back. she left for 3 months and came back 4 days ago and it's not the same since she got back she said we lost our "spark" i know i havent been the same cause of all the shit we went tru. i asked her for 1 day and she said yes. I think i'm gonna make her dinner like the first date we ever had but god this is killing me! any advice? never got dumped before and i really care about this girl, first time i ever care about someone!
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From: GILROY
Originally Posted by Tark
girl friend broke up with me... really sucks! I only tomorrow to try to kinda win her back. she left for 3 months and came back 4 days ago and it's not the same since she got back she said we lost our "spark" i know i havent been the same cause of all the shit we went tru. i asked her for 1 day and she said yes. I think i'm gonna make her dinner like the first date we ever had but god this is killing me! any advice? never got dumped before and i really care about this girl, first time i ever care about someone!
WELL TELL HER HOW YOU REALLY FEEL ABOUT HER START WITH THIS----------->, "i really care about U, first time i ever REALLY careD about someone THIS MUCH" AND A LOT MORE CAUSE IT LOOKS LIKE U GOT ONE CHANCE
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Originally Posted by raul95020
WELL TELL HER HOW YOU REALLY FEEL ABOUT HER START WITH THIS----------->, "i really care about U, first time i ever REALLY careD about someone THIS MUCH" AND A LOT MORE CAUSE IT LOOKS LIKE U GOT ONE CHANCE
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if she doesnt feel it anymore then no matter what you do, it wont fix it. go for it, try. if she loves she loves you, if not, then not, nothing you can really do except learn to live with it and find someone else or take a break. life will go on bro, im sure youll be fine, good luck
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show up with a better looking girl.
if she calls u, make sure ur at a party, and that ur having more fun then she is.
telling her how u really feel about her wont work. she already knows how u feel. she just bored with you.
dont call her, dont try to win her over. fuck that bull shit. if it over. its over.
trying to salvage a relationship will make u look like a bitch.
and girls dont like bitches.
ever wonder why u see some girls always staying with those guy that treat them like shit? cuz they like the challenge.
stop being a pussy. dont try to win her over by spending money on her.
cuz it hasnt been working.
if she calls u, make sure ur at a party, and that ur having more fun then she is.
telling her how u really feel about her wont work. she already knows how u feel. she just bored with you.
dont call her, dont try to win her over. fuck that bull shit. if it over. its over.
trying to salvage a relationship will make u look like a bitch.
and girls dont like bitches.
ever wonder why u see some girls always staying with those guy that treat them like shit? cuz they like the challenge.
stop being a pussy. dont try to win her over by spending money on her.
cuz it hasnt been working.
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if she's not in it, she's not in it. Theres not really much you can do to change that. The more you focus on trying to win her back, the more it'll hurt when you fail. :edit: If things are different since she's back or it feels wierd or something now, it probably means the "spark" as you call it is already gone... you may be more in love with the ideal than the person herself.
Take it from a guy that took the better part of a year recovering from his first dumping: do your best to move on.
Take it from a guy that took the better part of a year recovering from his first dumping: do your best to move on.
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From: cortland, ohio
Originally Posted by confucius
show up with a better looking girl.
if she calls u, make sure ur at a party, and that ur having more fun then she is.
telling her how u really feel about her wont work. she already knows how u feel. she just bored with you.
dont call her, dont try to win her over. fuck that bull shit. if it over. its over.
trying to salage relationship will make u look like a bitch.
and girls dont like bitches.
ever wonder why u see some girls always staying with those guy that treat them like shit? cuz they like the challenge.
stop being a pussy. dont try to win her over by spending money on her.
cuz it hasnt been working.
if she calls u, make sure ur at a party, and that ur having more fun then she is.
telling her how u really feel about her wont work. she already knows how u feel. she just bored with you.
dont call her, dont try to win her over. fuck that bull shit. if it over. its over.
trying to salage relationship will make u look like a bitch.
and girls dont like bitches.
ever wonder why u see some girls always staying with those guy that treat them like shit? cuz they like the challenge.
stop being a pussy. dont try to win her over by spending money on her.
cuz it hasnt been working.