she's screwing with your head man. I don't know your situation, but I can tell ya it's something like this.

1. you guys seperated because she needed space ... 99% of the time, another guy.
2. new guy didn't work out ... and she feels bad for leaving you to begin with. You're the easiest rebound because she's familiar with you ... and you never hurt her.
3. for attention, she's back pulling this lame IM's.
(repeat until you had enough)

:happysad:

 

I've got one who's trying to convince all of my friends and acquantances (sp) that I'm a crazed stalker who has a restraining order against me, which is a massive fabrication as far as I know :happysad: When they laugh at her it only makes her angrier and crazier.

She's playing with you Chase...if it didn't work out then it sure as hell isn't gonna work out now, that's my motto. She's just trying to get into your head.

 

:lmao:

I'm sorry man, I don't mean to laugh ... but that's just retarded.

 

No it's pretty funny. I found out about it last week while I was golfing with my best friend...he heard from a kid from high school that my ex is telling everyone that after we broke up a year ago I called her every night for a month, drove out to where she goes to school (3 hours away) to stalk her, and then she filed a restraining order on me. What amazes me is her imagination...not any of it is true, it boggles the mind how someone could make all that shit up and tell it with a straight face :dunno: At first I was pissed but now I really don't give a shit. She acts like she's in high school. The funny thing is that she cheated on me and broke up with me (well I only found out about the cheating after the breaking up), and yet she's the bitter one who sends me nastygrams every now and then and does this shit. What a crazy bitch.

If someone actually did file a restraining order against you, wouldn't you be notified? I mean, how would you restrain yourself if you didn't know? Plus I don't even think you can get a restraining order if there's no real grounds other than craziness...her family loved me.

 

You might be on to something here...

 

Girls rebound to ex's only for a confidence boost, mostly to get their ego's inflated. They need this attention to feel attractive again ... once things are all in check and tip top shape mentally, the girl will wander off.

It's a never ending cycle unless you tell them to piss off.

 

true for the young, bitchy girls who don't know any better. I wouldn't write that in stone as that's the reason why some girls want to get back together with their ex's.

 

take advantage of it...get some sexors then run for the hills :run: