Relationships: Have you ever cheated?
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From: maryland
I guess i cheated...but i stopped it after a second and told my bf at the time what i had done, and that he should hate me 
And yes, I have been cheated on. More than once....i don't understand it. At least me and my bf at the time were about to break up anyways ( not that is makes it right, i was still horribly wrong). If you have to cheat on someone then just break up with the person. Don't let them get hurt. It's a horrible horrible feeling and very hard to forgive.
And yes, I have been cheated on. More than once....i don't understand it. At least me and my bf at the time were about to break up anyways ( not that is makes it right, i was still horribly wrong). If you have to cheat on someone then just break up with the person. Don't let them get hurt. It's a horrible horrible feeling and very hard to forgive.
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it makes it better?
It makes it better if you just break up with someone just so you can cheat? I don't know if that what u meant, but it kinda sounded like that. I dunno... 
Also, I find it extremely hard to believe that you all have never cheated before...that blows my mind!
Also, I find it extremely hard to believe that you all have never cheated before...that blows my mind!
snitches get stitches
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From: Portland, OR
Originally Posted by TrancedAmber
It makes it better if you just break up with someone just so you can cheat? I don't know if that what u meant, but it kinda sounded like that. I dunno... Also, I find it extremely hard to believe that you all have never cheated before...that blows my mind!
Also, I find it extremely hard to believe that you all have never cheated before...that blows my mind!If you're thinking of cheating, your current relationship isn't that strong to begin with, so it should probably be ended. It may seem like you're breaking up just to have relations with someone else, but its also to spare everyone involved more drama and pain.
...and you didn't answer the question.
I go duffy on dem bitches
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From: Gonzales, Louisiana
Originally Posted by TrancedAmber
It makes it better if you just break up with someone just so you can cheat? I don't know if that what u meant, but it kinda sounded like that. I dunno... Also, I find it extremely hard to believe that you all have never cheated before...that blows my mind!
Also, I find it extremely hard to believe that you all have never cheated before...that blows my mind!
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From: Montréal, Canada
Originally Posted by TTT
What, are you trying to justify it now? Trying to make it sound ok? You say you never decieved them...
Originally Posted by TTT
If you told them you were going to cheat on them tomorrow with Jessica, I doubt very seriously they would stay with you... if you told them after the fact that you cheated on them, then thats definitely not "always telling the truth."
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From: Ossining, New York
Originally Posted by Discosmurf
*shakes head* Nut squeezing = not a good thing
Why not just be a man and say "It's not working out between us, sorry"
Speaking of cheating, can I vent about a friend of mine real quick? Kthnx.
We'll call him J. Now, me, J, and our other friends - M, G, and B all used to hang out together and go to car shows and movies and all that. Anyhoo, J and I wound up hooking up for a hot second and he'd get all jealous of any guy that talked to me, yet we weren't a couple or anything so I just said F U, J. Grow up. Anyhoo, he goes behind my back and sleeps with this girl R. R and I knew each other and knew of mine and J's "thing" She would also mention how fine she thought J was and blah blah blah. A bunch of shit goes down and now J, R, and I are not friends like we used to be. So, J and R and dating now and they moved in with each other in like April of this year. I found out that J sucker punched B in the face because J thought B was sleeping with R. Picture B looking like Screech and R looking like Jay Lo. Does that make sense to you all? A week before last, J told B that he wanted to break it off with R and become a pimp. No he was not kidding.
EDIT: About 2 months after J and R moved in with each other I found out that he slept with a girl at the restaurant I work in. She came up to me herself and asked if J and I had a thing going on, so I asked her why? Then 2 days before he punched B he had just gotten back from missing for 3 days with R's car after telling her he was just going to go get cigarrettes.
Does this seem right to any of you?
Why not just be a man and say "It's not working out between us, sorry"
Speaking of cheating, can I vent about a friend of mine real quick? Kthnx.
We'll call him J. Now, me, J, and our other friends - M, G, and B all used to hang out together and go to car shows and movies and all that. Anyhoo, J and I wound up hooking up for a hot second and he'd get all jealous of any guy that talked to me, yet we weren't a couple or anything so I just said F U, J. Grow up. Anyhoo, he goes behind my back and sleeps with this girl R. R and I knew each other and knew of mine and J's "thing" She would also mention how fine she thought J was and blah blah blah. A bunch of shit goes down and now J, R, and I are not friends like we used to be. So, J and R and dating now and they moved in with each other in like April of this year. I found out that J sucker punched B in the face because J thought B was sleeping with R. Picture B looking like Screech and R looking like Jay Lo. Does that make sense to you all? A week before last, J told B that he wanted to break it off with R and become a pimp. No he was not kidding.
EDIT: About 2 months after J and R moved in with each other I found out that he slept with a girl at the restaurant I work in. She came up to me herself and asked if J and I had a thing going on, so I asked her why? Then 2 days before he punched B he had just gotten back from missing for 3 days with R's car after telling her he was just going to go get cigarrettes.
Does this seem right to any of you?
If Train A is traveling at 50mph and Train B is traveling at 65mph, at what point will they meet :rofl: