CRAIGHIMSELF

My really close friend committed suicide on Sunday night and his funeral is tomorrow. Its a closed casket so I was wondering what I should do about bringing something that Id like to bury with him. Ive never had to do this so is it appropriate if I enlarged a pic of him and I and placed it next to the casket? Sorry if this sounds dumb but I just want to do it since we were childhood friends.

Also, are white flowers appropriate on a day like that?

RB

talk to his parents and see what they think about it.

Grifter

i believe it is customary, in chinese culture, that white represents death or something

my mom told me not to wear white to a wedding because it represents death or a funeral and to wear red more better (to a wedding)

CRAIGHIMSELF

Then why do brides wear white?

veen

i think it represents innocence and virginity
(almost never true)

Bl@ck

because they're lying biotches.. it's supposed to symbolize purity

Grifter

for guests, not the bride or groom, im sure

reech-around

:lmfao:

9600baud

stay on subject guys...

yea asking the parents / relatives is a good one, it would highly differ on whats appropiate or not depending on culture / family traditions. sorry to hear about your loss

lil_1_2002

Definatelly ask the parents if tehy are okay with it. Also its customary to wear black, straight black if possible but i'm sure you knew that.