well, see she says im too controlling, and she still likes me. although she did tell her best friend that she wont cheat on me, but there are still feelings there for him, but she still likes me, she wont go back out with him, i know its not gonna happen.

 

i guess i am too controlling, i dont let her hangout with any guys, i yell at her a lot, i flip out over little things, and i dont let her be herself, i make her do what i like. and shes sick of that, if i changed that then im sure things will be fine, but i knwo im not callin her when she gets backm she can call me or whatever.

 

it seems like you have trust issues,...like my girlfriend always says,..a relationship is built off trust,..if you have any doubts in your head that there is any chance she will ever cheat on you,..its best to leave the relationship,..because the insecurities will haunt you and eat you up inside,..if she has feelings for him and she told you "i dont know if i want to be wiht you when i get back" its best to break up with her before she says anything to you,..i think the less you know (which is the stuff she will tell you when she gets back) the better off you are

 

Couldnt say it better myself. That is one of the biggest reasons the mother of my child and I broke up after 3 and 1/2 years. (almost a year since then and it still hurts some each day.) That insecurity still eats at me today...don't let it happen to you.

 

well, i did have a bit of trust issues, but its because im just naturally paranoid about everything. But now that shes gone and i know she wont do anything like that i trust her more than anything, but my g/f changes her mind so many times she never knows what she wants, shes very confusing, but she did tell her mom she wants to see me tonight, like she planned on doing, she told her best friend she didnt want to see me on monday, and would rather see me later, but at the time she was just mad at me, and she only thinks about breaking up with me when shes mad, but she just likes me too much to do it. and she would never go out with her ex again, i dont know i need to talk to her tonight.

 

give him the axe

 

let us know what happens tonight

 

do yourself a favor and treat her like a stamp....lick her, stick her, and send her off.

 

wow. well said. :thumbup:

 

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