Guys, my girlfriend wants to have sex, and I want to wait atleast until I am 21 or until I am married. I dont know how to break it to her or if I should just do it. What does it feel like?? and do you think its worth not waiting?

 

Personally - don't flame - it's a bit overrated. If you're a virgin you're always thinking about it because you've never had it. It's sort of like eating the candy you can't have.

Granted it's awesome, but it's not worth going against any morals you have.

For now just tell her suck it. h:

 

what does sex feel like? words can't explain. But if you feel so strongly about waiting until you're married, do not sacrifice that for anyone. If she can't understand and wants to move on, then it wasn't meant to be. Just let her know how you feel and what you want(she obviously had no problem letting you know how she feels and what she wants) and go from there. Good luck.

 

I'll offer a contrary POV.... for the hell of it.

What's the big deal? It's just sex. It's not earth shattering or anything. Just do it. It's not going to be like the holy grail... just do it.

Put on some love music... turn the lights low... get in the mood and stick it in. Go to town. Romp on it! :thumbup:

Doesn't happen everyday where a girl tells you she wants it. Just do it.

Personally..... try before you buy. I'd never commit to someone without knowing what they can and cannot do. Oh marriage is for love blah blah bullshit, there's sex there too. Sex can be utterly amazing... you have a shitty partner and you may never know it. Sample now before you get married.

 

its nothin THAT great.. yeh its good and all, but if you want to wait, you arent really missin anything.. id wait if you really feel that way...

 

Do what you feel is right... not because what we others tell you. If you want to wait.. then wait.. there's nothing wrong with it. But.. don't be afraid to explain this to her.

 

i know.. she should understand, she was at that point once too...

 

sex is like driving...

when ur ****ing 12 all you wanna do is ****ing drive " i can't wait to drive yadadadada..."

when ur 16 and get ur license yuor so ****ign excitied...

after a couple months of carting all ur friends around, and running errands for ur parents it gets old...

so u go buy something nicer & faster to make driving fun...

with sex

when ur 12 all u wanna do is see some tits and ****...

once u **** its awesome...but when u **** and **** and **** all the time is gets old...

thisis when new girls, corny things, and 3 somes come in to play

 

If you feel so strongly about keeping your virginity until marriage or the age of 21 (is it a whatever-comes-first type thing?), then do it. If your girlfriend really loves you and respects you, then she will respect your decision. If she gets angry, or breaks up with you over this issue, then you'll know she wasn't worth giving it to in the first place. Personally, I'm impressed. There aren't too many guys out there these days who want to wait for the right time or the right girl. :thumbup:

 

Like warm apple pie. h:




as for your question.. if it means a lot to you to save yourself until marriage, then do it. You don't want to have any regrets about it if you did do it.