So there's this girl @ work...
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From: San Hose Jose
you gotta play it chill and mellow. most people don't like the idea of work dating... ask her out to lunch like everyone was saying because lunch is still work related yet a time to feel looser. you can get to know her better and she can get to know the true pimp u are.
when you get back to the office just play it like it was nothing.. the more you over analyze, the more u fawk your chances. don't place any value on that lunch and just ask her again the next day (if it went well) and start calling her your "lunch" buddy or something :ghey: like that.
btw, SN is kinda :eh: good luck!!
when you get back to the office just play it like it was nothing.. the more you over analyze, the more u fawk your chances. don't place any value on that lunch and just ask her again the next day (if it went well) and start calling her your "lunch" buddy or something :ghey: like that.
btw, SN is kinda :eh: good luck!!
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Originally posted by /^Blackmagik^\
:werd: that's a little more personal and a little less high school than "can i call you?" after you go out to lunch, and if that goes fairly well, ask her to dinner than she'll probably be like "here, let me give you my number" askin for the digits off the bat is something you do at a bar, not tryin to pick up the new hottay at work.
:werd: that's a little more personal and a little less high school than "can i call you?" after you go out to lunch, and if that goes fairly well, ask her to dinner than she'll probably be like "here, let me give you my number" askin for the digits off the bat is something you do at a bar, not tryin to pick up the new hottay at work.
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yea, shes a really nice girl. i havent asked her for her number yet, but ill prolly ask her out to lunch sometime (usually i work in the daytime, i dont have an office job or ne thing, so i dont get a "lunch" break really...maybe just a half an hour every once in a while...usually 15 mins), im just training her to be a customer service rep @ best buy. she's funny because she rolls her eyes at every guy that tries to hit on her, and here i am just being myself, talkin to her. I really dont have any "pimp" juice, and dont have a record for being a ladies man. But, i can tell you that i have attracted lots of nice lookin girls by just being myself. Love Potion No. 9 haha.
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She most likely has no idea that you're interested.
I can say from experience that generally the workplace is not the best setting in which to find girls to hook up with. My job is all UW students so there's tons of money girls there. Once I realized that they were just being friendly and weren't indicating that they wanted to have sex with me I started having a lot more fun at that job.
Besides you can usually get away with more crap with a chick that's your friend than a chick you're trying to hook up with. Plus having chick friends means that when you go out with them you get to meet their hot friends and they think you're safe because their friend seems to like you.
I can say from experience that generally the workplace is not the best setting in which to find girls to hook up with. My job is all UW students so there's tons of money girls there. Once I realized that they were just being friendly and weren't indicating that they wanted to have sex with me I started having a lot more fun at that job.
Besides you can usually get away with more crap with a chick that's your friend than a chick you're trying to hook up with. Plus having chick friends means that when you go out with them you get to meet their hot friends and they think you're safe because their friend seems to like you.
do you want me to prove my point? .. i didn't think so... so....
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You know what, if you're going to see this broad often after the training...don't even do anything. Just let it happen and don't like her for the next few months. She'll come around if you have a chance.
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Originally posted by DC2
You know what, if you're going to see this broad often after the training...don't even do anything. Just let it happen and don't like her for the next few months. She'll come around if you have a chance.
You know what, if you're going to see this broad often after the training...don't even do anything. Just let it happen and don't like her for the next few months. She'll come around if you have a chance.
...seems that alot of girls these days have a bigger problem with rejection than us guys do! who knew? now he has her...and i found a new girl, and itz about time too! (Took me only about 1 1/2 years to get over the other girl because i didnt like anyone else...) Im not gonna let this one slip thru my fingers.