It's wrong. They're dead, let the grudge go with it.

ex.
Dre & Easy-E h:

 

Kick the shit out of them right before deployment so Naval can deem them unfit to fight. That "may have" happened with us in 1/6 before my 1st deploy

 

I'm not religious at all.

But it just seems disrespectful to either not absolve the dead of the disputes, or not mourn their passing.

To not be sad is one thing.

But to be happy.... I don't know.

 

depends.

 

Your emotions are your emotions. What we construe as moral or immoral/ good or bad can differ by person. Just don't be an ignorant prick and go holding picket signs outside of her funeral saying God wanted her to die... like some ignorant assholes do.

None of us have been in your situation with her. However, if she was just a loud bitch, and didn't harm you physically or emotionally... I'd say feeling happy about it would be sorta wrong.