That's why you pay for yourselves or find a woman who is willing to pay.
Honestly though, some women I have dated in the past, if I tried to pay for them, they think I'm trying to be a captain or showing off.
h: But of course I have also dated other women that expect it from the get-go that I pay for everything.
And about the motel... why? Just go back to your place?
All the stuff you mentioned seemed pretty pricey. 35 for dinner?(Eh, I guess it depends where you go) 50 for go kart racing?(it's cheaper around my area I guess) 30 for movies and popcorn?(are you sure it was just the tickets and popcorn? no drinks?):eh:
This is my realistic date if I was dating someone new:
25=food
20=movies(bargain matinee) OR 10 for a Blockbuster night
20=for other fun stuff
FREE=my place to have sex with the lights on so I can see her sex face
h: