As for driving it hard during the breakin period goes, there was no harsh driving (hard stops, hard accl). The rotors were resurfaced at 2k cause that was when I had enough of the shaking, plus they had to replace the center console compartment below the radio cause that broke. So it seem the rotors were going wrong since the delivery when it had 8 miles.

I am just really disappointed in the situation, on other forums (edmunds...) 03 owners are complaining.