ACT does sell stages they allow you to mix pressure plates and clutches for yourself.

i personally have ACT HD SS which heavy duty pressure plate and street disc. this is what most people have and is plenty for the average person. the next upgrade would be an XT SS or extreme plate with street disc, but you will not have fun with that in traffic. a 6 or 4 puck clutch is really not for street use although some hardcore people like it. you will get clutch chatter with a clutch like that and have a better chance of breaking your tranny.

as for flywheels ACT has just releashed their own street lite and pro lite flywheels. they are made of chromoly which is better than aluminum like the fidanze/clutchmaster ones. accord and lude applications will be out next month i believe. i would go with the street lite, imo since it's 12lbs v. 8 which is better for daily driving.

check the best buys forum on honda-tech.com someone has been selling these for awhile.