dude, u're 19 or about too, so go get a job and work for the car. I got my car when I was 18 and Been working my a** up for it for 2 yrs already. I spent all the money for it myself, kit, rims, swap, full coilovers, etc. It's not that hard to find a job. BTW, i go to college full time, 18-19 credit hrs/semester, and I stil have time to work, and have fun. Time management is what you need bro. Sure, dady lost his job, but it doesn't mean the end of the world, (sound so dramatic). You've been around here kinda long, so you should know and learn enough. It's time to grow up.