the alarm isnt connected to the ingition wire correctly so its not recognizing when the car comes on, did u just wire it in to a constant 12 volt wire? or did u wire it to the ignition wire correctly? in order to by pass the auto on function the alarm has to recognize a power source coming to a certain circuit for a brief moment, u can wire this in with a toggle switch i guess, but ur best bet would be to wire it to the ignition wire correctly so it functions how it is supposed to,