I do freelance work for vtec.net. They're all no-nonsense fellows that won't get into immature stuff (charades, trolling, etc) like I've seen at other Honda boards. I still can't pinpoint the beef because different things are being said at different times.
Do you have the post that was 8 months before TOVs? Do you have the TOVs date? There were things mentioned about Accord pictures too. This leads me to believe that it was a culmination of things rather than one specific incident that lead to discord.
I'm just curious...I'm not making sense of any of this.