I have Neuspeed's but haven't put them on yet, so can't help you with that.
You'll probably get told to get Koni Yellow's with either Ground Control or Skunk2 coilovers, because those are top line products.
But expensive as hell. Apparently most kids on here have trust funds or something, they have a shitload of expensive stuff on their car.
I would say get KYB AGX struts and Neuspeed Race springs. You could even get used springs that are in good condition.