my parents tell me to come home early from school so i leave right when it ends. right in the middle of the traffic jam. and what happens? i get rear ended

the guy is a friend of mine so i said i wouldnt report to his insurance if he took care of it $$$wise
my rear bumper isnt so bad, just mushed in a little
but heres where the real damage is: even though it was a slow accident (less than 5 mph incident) i got pushed into an suv. one with a freakin trailer hitch. that thing acted like a spear and just poked the **** outta my front bumper. pretty much all the hardware got busted loose
my mom took it to the honda body shop and they estimated a little over a grand to fix everything! hopefully the guy that hit me can take that kind of hit to the wallet. but later tonite i looked at it a little closer and noticed this::
that thing sticking out is my bumper support, which is also heavily damaged

that sucker wasn't included in my estimate and i guess they're gonna charge me more for it.