Haha, I dunno why everyone gives GS-Rs so much credit. People always ask me about mine like it's a Porsche (I even had some kid take a picture of it when I went to the gumball this year). Anyway, to me it sounds like you want a GS-R. I wouldn't say the GS-R is "really fast" by any means. My uncle's Altima can smoke it (straightline). Basically most of the "options" on other cars are standard (sunroof, leather, Cd Player [some years], ABS, etc). It's a great combo of luxury and performance. But if you really don't want a GS-R or can't drive stick, go for the Special Edition or GS with leather.

In your case, I'd avoid the Type R