welcome to 4th gen accords

probably first mods to mod looks should be springs and struts of course...aero gave a good start on what to do....and i agree...don't go cheap coils cause they suck....if you do go coils...go ground control or full coilover setup...if not, go springs...can't go wrong with H&R and some good struts....
things that make your car go .00001 sec faster, intake, exhaust, headers, usual stuff for your buck...if not..save and go H22 swap.....