Welcome aboard.. yeah definately dont try and be 18 and slap on the fast and the furious stuff. Keeping it mild and subtle is the way to go. As for up grades most people start off by opening up the air way with intake, header, and exhaust. After youve got the air flowing youll want to look into fuel upgrades such as a fuel pressure regulator and fuel rail. After upgrading air and fuel you can get an air/ fuel controller and start tuning. There are endless ways to upgrade your accord, this is just what most people do first but its all up to you. Looks wise you can look into lips, lights, rims, a mild drop. Whatever you do have fun and make sure to ask plenty of questions here because people of HAN love to answer them. :thumbup: