I think there is a mis-communication about jumps here. GR Racer is talking about jumping the computer to get codes, and ManInCamo is talking about jump starting.

When you turn your key to the all on position(ie turning on the CEL getting ready to start) is your fuel pump making noise? Check that first. Next, do you have spark? You can check it by pulling a plug or using a spare, and hooking up the wire and cranking the engine while a friend watches to see if you are getting spark.
Thought, when your dad pulled the fuses, they all went back right? Maybe one is not pushed in all the way or somehow blew when being put back in. Try checking the ECM fuse to make sure it's good and that it's firmly pressed into the fuse socket. Also, check all the other fuses to make sure one was not misplaced.

Just some thoughts. Hope this helps.