the forums are what you make of them....
personally I think HV (now AT) is a lil too fast-paced, with way too much drama....I prefer hondadelsol.com, or hondahookup.com on occasion.

If you want to see dead, try automotiveforums.com, they have a new thread once a month I think. recently there was a lil fight, I hadn't seen one there since I joined til then.