Actually what I think you're referring to is feeling "solid"... compared to a accord a BMW and Benz feel like more "solid" cars.. not matter if one or the other is slower or faster than the accord.
I also test drove a '03 accord and that graphite color makes the rear look very nice.. the front always looked great and the rear is also starting to grow on me... I'm trying to imagine how a 03 accord sedan might look lowered with 17" CL Type S wheels on it.