private parties is a big helllllll no. I've seen what happens at bachelor parties with them strippers. You'll start wondering if you don't go, then you'll start wondering more and more until one day you hear something, then you accuse her, and then the relationship ends abruptly.

clubs are ok. They employ guys to make sure no shit goes down... now unless she's got big muscled dudes around to make sure nothin like that happens, I'd never let my lady strip at private parties. never.