first off the j30 & j32 wont work
now i guess i can answer some ?'s for you
i have an acura cl it originally came with the same f23 motor that is in your car....i bolted on a turbo kit.. it lasted about 1 month. there is a guy on acura-cl.com who also turbo the stock motor and was very successful with it...they now have alot of parts for that motor so you could build it for turbo.. check out www.raceeng.com

i was not successful with turboing the f23 so i did a motor swap...i was very happy with that...for a while but i had to turbo AGAIN...but if i had it to do all over again i would have just did the swap and used NOS

the h22 has good power to start with and has a strong straong after market support

the f20 i am not really sure about..all i know is that it is a jdm motor...so i guess the aftermarket support isnt that great