You sound like a Prelude girl. If you really want a Prelude get it!
However, if you want your Accord to handle better:
$603-Neuspeed-Koni Sport Shocks (commonly known as "Koni Yellows")
$149-Some H&R Sport or Race springs (you would need camber kits if you get the Race springs)
$313-Comptech Front and Rear Sway Bars
~$15-Prothane Bushings for the Sway Bars (I think the Comptechs come with better bushings, not sure)
$119-Neuspeed Front Strut Bar
$???-Unkown brand rear Strut Bar (Starts with a J

)
~$300?-Some better tires (not many performance tires in 195/65-15 though).
You could definitely go with the TL-S sway bars (which are VERY good and very cheap when it comes to price), and no strut bars to save $$$. I personally want to get everything listed above minus the strut bars and tires with the Sport springs, I just can't wait...