Yeah I told her that to that it may not get abusive now or soon but eventually something is going to make him snap and she's going to get really hurt. She doesn't want to leave him though because everytime she tries and goes out with someone else she always pictures him and he gets in the way of having another chance for her going out with someone else because he is always on her mind. All of her friends and me have told her the same thing and told her to kick this guy to the curb because he's bad news but it's up to her to make the choice. She seemed so sad it made me pissed because a b/f or g/f or whoever isn't suppose to make someone feel that way.