Originally posted by Derek
just gotta ask yourself what you want. I loved my ex, decided to do my own thing, which was hard at first, but I'm a lot happier now. I just recently started talking to her again after a year and a half, so we're cool now. And while some feelings did come back when I met up with her, they passed and I know that it's just the past. I'm actually starting something with someone new, that has promise. Personally, I say give the new girl a chance, you two broke up for a reason, it's up to you though. 
ya we broke up for reasons, and we both know well that the problems will still be there no matter how much we love each other. I thought i had moved on already until yesterday. when i talked to her, the memories seemed come back on my mind all a sudden you know.
I told both of them i just want to be single for now and they do respect my decision, but i know sooner or later i will have to face this problem and make a tough decision.