You have also checked all your fuses as well?
Do you have a friend close by with an Accord of the sae generation that you could take his ECU and plug it into your car? or perhaps a local tuner shop you are friendly with to test this out?
I dunno I have only ever heard of ECUs going out for extreme reasons...never just randomly failing:dunno:
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