dude i'm in the same boat as you. I broke up with my g/f of 3 yrs in november, and yea she dated mostly throught highschool so that was tough, i was fine for a while cause i was talkin to another ex g/f but i realized that wasnt gonna work out cause i wasnt ready for a relationship and didnt want to hurt her...but now that we stopped talkin i've found myself thinking more about my ex...i'm considering callini her because well we ened on bad terms, she cheated on me and i basically blow up on her and havent seen her or spoken to her since nov, but as much as i want to hate her i cant seem to bring myself to doin it since we went to so much...not sure if i should talk to her and sorta clear the air, that might make me feel a bit better...still a lil confused...sorry to go off on a tangent, but yea i just wanted to say that i'm right there with ya bro.