ok, so i tried puttin a different wheel on and sure enough it fits, i took a closer look and it looks like he sent me one 4x100/4x114.3 and three 4x100/4x108ish, i guess he didn't know the difference cause they were on an integra (4x100). so now i'm either going to try and get all of my money back from him, or sell the wheels to a civic/integra. ugh im pissed