if she doesnt have insurance,..then you can contact your insurance and they will pay for the damages and then go after her for the money they dished out to fix your car,...that does suck though man,..i would get another hatchback just you can have spare parts,..i would do that with both of mine but they both are nice,..i bought one thinking i would just use it as a beater and for spare parts but i turned it into a sleeper,..the interior is gutted so i can use spare parts for the interior only,..and outxider,..there are numerous threads along with other sites that give how tos on how to paint the housings of your stock headlight units,..do a search and im sure you will be satifisfied,..good luck